Falling in love????


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ThinkingOne   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 13-06-08 13:35:51

When I hear about such hidden extra-marital affairs, the only question that comes to my mind is: What if the partner of cheating person is also indulged in the same kind of activity with another person. Do such people even care to act responsible to the child(ren)?

DIO: May be you should ask above question to your friend... Will you like if your wife is getting closer (read affair or intimate) with a third person in desh? You want your wife to be sati-savitri, but you yourself dont hesitate to indulge in cheating!

I feel this is a very irresponsible act which can literally ruin the childhood of the kid (assuming < 10 yrs).



Aashu   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 13-06-08 13:52:44

Every one is talking about the kid(s). What happens when two people do not get along in general ? Do they or should they stick together just for the sake of child only or do they / should they part their ways ?

And no one is thinking of the poor wife involved with this man for more years than the child has been.



Pink Panther   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 13-06-08 14:48:11

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Originally posted by Aashu

Every one is talking about the kid(s). What happens when two people do not get along in general ? Do they or should they stick together just for the sake of child only or do they / should they part their ways ?

And no one is thinking of the poor wife involved with this man for more years than the child has been.



We don't really know what the situation is between husband and wife, husband says his wife is 'cool' towards him...sounds like they need to work on things and if they feel splitting is the best way to go then I totally agree with what you say about not staying together for the sake of the child. I know a couple who did exactly this and though it may not be the 'ideal' way to do things, at least both parties are now in committed relationships with other people and they share responsibity of their child.


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Maharaj   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 13-06-08 14:57:01

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Originally posted by Pink Pantheri
f they feel splitting is the best way to go then I totally agree with what you say about not staying together for the sake of the child.



Yes staying together just for kid sake does not make sense. Raising kid under unhealthy relationship will have adverse effect ...


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HelloG   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 13-06-08 15:47:44

I may sound old school but I strongly beleive there is nothing that can't be sorted out in a relation and if things can go wrong in one then they may as well recur in the second then what do you do?
It seems nowadays people do not have patience/will to analyse and work on the issues in their relation and rather go for easy way out..divorce which is no longer a social stigma and they know they have a choice unlike other relations ..parents, brothers sisters etc.
This friend of DIO is, i guess, just having agood time and may not have any intention of giving up on his marriage and we here are all popping our brains out instead of enjoying the beautiful weather outside. I am sure hes out having fun!!!



Fido   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 13-06-08 16:15:44

HelloG

Gross and strong incompatibility issues can never be sorted out not only in spiusal relationship but in any relationship . Sometimes living far can be better than living together .


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HelloG   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 13-06-08 16:59:38

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Originally posted by Fido

HelloG

Gross and strong incompatibility issues can never be sorted out not only in spiusal relationship but in any relationship . Sometimes living far can be better than living together .


Fido
I would agree with you IFF the issues are Actually 'Gross and Strong' and its a do or die situation but in my view people in general are giving up too early or just wander around without any sustantial reason to support it. Given a chance i would ask this person what is he exactly looking for in the other woman and is it something that his wife can't improve upon be it education, looks, job or anything for that matter.
Marriage is such divine thing where you have someone who is closest to you and will grow old with you sharing all ups and downs of life and I strongly beleive and would recommend all to Hold On to It!

Have a nice weekend!





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