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Blue going to the strip club is also Cheating, the same as having an affair.
I don't think there's any comparison. Think about a spouse's reaction to the following statements, if they're the same, you'd get the same reaction, right?
A. "Honey, I want to be upfront with you, my friends and I went to a strip club yesterday. I spent a couple of hours there, had some beers etc. Next time I go, I'll let you know in advance"
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A. "Honey, I'm having an affair with a girl/guy in my office. I went out with him/her on a date yesterday. Next time I'll go on a date with him/her, I'll let you know in advance"
Which one would end the marriage right away?
To Dimple's point, if there's enough trust in the relationship, you can let your spouse know about going to a strip club and its a win-win because you don't feel like you're doing something behind their back and they know that you're open and transparent and they can trust you. Most undrestanding spouses would put up with that in a strip-club scenario. I don't know any who'd put up with an affair, its a completely different situation.
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Hey BL...I wonder how did the honey respond to you ogling at naked woman.....but 'understanding' can take you places for sure...
I don't think there's any comparison. Think about a spouse's reaction to the following statements, if they're the same, you'd get the same reaction, right?
A. "Honey, I want to be upfront with you, my friends and I went to a strip club yesterday. I spent a couple of hours there, had some beers etc. Next time I go, I'll let you know in advance"
VS.
A. "Honey, I'm having an affair with a girl/guy in my office. I went out with him/her on a date yesterday. Next time I'll go on a date with him/her, I'll let you know in advance"
Which one would end the marriage right away?
To Dimple's point, if there's enough trust in the relationship, you can let your spouse know about going to a strip club and its a win-win because you don't feel like you're doing something behind their back and they know that you're open and transparent and they can trust you. Most undrestanding spouses would put up with that in a strip-club scenario. I don't know any who'd put up with an affair, its a completely different situation.
:Buddha" means grey hair. 50 + , about to retire in couple of years having grown up children / Grand Children.
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Originally posted by dimple2001
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Originally posted by Loser
I agree with this scenario but all the Men i know hide it from their wives about visting the strip club and the same with men in India visiting Dance Bars.
I know of "Buddha" ONGC oficers who visit Dance bars frequently and these people have young daughters and grand daughters.
Just out of curiosity....What does "Buddha" mean in your context?
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You know you are a desi when ........ You spew forth the virtues of India, but don't want to live there...............You've never had a tanning salon membership
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Originally posted by Iknownothing
Hey BL...I wonder how did the honey respond to you ogling at naked woman.....
The interest in how my honey responded or will respond is curious at best, but you'll have to keep wondering about that. Might be worthwhile for you to figure out how your honey did/will respond?
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in my opinion, it's how people are...some just have a strong character and others do fall through the cracks of temptations and loose the balance...nothing can be done about that...probably, reasses his position and duties as a father (if not as a husband, & seek some help...)it's just how DIO's frined is or circumstances have drawn him at this point...this topic was interesting though throughout, in terms of diff. opinions...:-)
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Posted on: 13-06-08 11:11:00
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Originally posted by Loser
:Buddha" means grey hair. 50 + , about to retire in couple of years having grown up children / Grand Children.
Understood. Thank you.
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