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Originally posted by tamilkuravan
4. Not exposed to sex predators at school or play.

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I support TK....I'M WITH HIM.

Not only tamil culture but every culture except gora and kalas wants to grow their children in good atmosphere which we can't find it here..

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Originally posted by tamilkuravan

MR,
What i said regarding bringing up of child canot be constituted of child abuse. I am of the opinion of using mild force from time to time.
What is the use of raising your child in such a spoilt society. We see children speaking the 4 lettter word from age 6 (yes. i heard a indian boy say that. he learnt it not from school but from his day care).
Tamil culture is :
1. Child being taught the family heritage by grand parents and relatives.
2. All people in the society watch the child.
3. Ability to play outside 24/365
4. Not exposed to sex predators at school or play.
5. ability to punish a sex predator if found.
6. love of people (not nessesarily your parents)
7. Strong education
8. access to medical and dental facilities in 5 mins. waiting time
9. cultural activities as bharathanatiyam
10. low cost to bring up the child.

Tamil culture is not :
1. father and mother educated professionally and doing labour job.
2. working 10-12 hrs. a day and not knowing when you will be fired.
3. children are abusive in schools and speak all kind of bad words.
4. being in cold 8 months a year
5. Medical care being not good at all
6. if child is not in good mood and calls 911, then parents are in soup.
7. too many sex predtors in the city
8. no relatives or grandparents near by.
9. when the child decides who to marry.
10. when the child decides to do or not do drugs.
11. who the child decides to date
12. when the child decides to leave parents at age 18
13. when the child decides not to love his/ her parents nor support parents
14. when the child decides what to study
15. when the child decides his or her friends
TK
Sidenote : Sankaracharya, you are a person from my culture and language. does what i say make sense to you? have you ever thought in the same way that i have thought?
Also JRF, your views will be appriciated.
Sidenote 2 : My wife agrees on all the points except leaving the child to be taken care of by relatives/ grand parents

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Originally posted by jake3d


I guess one should find an easier way of cloning ones mind and putting it into a childs head. That way the child and the father can think EXACTLY alike. Wont that be just peachy?

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"Working as labor is not Tamil culture". What is wrong in labor job, It seems all people in Tamil who do labor job are imported from other states/countries because all Tamils are CEOs. I am not sure from how long you are here but things have changed all over India except few places or small cities. Now Indian kids know everything about sex/movies/jobs/career/their choice. I think these days kids are smart, fast and less dependent on us.

I am not sure why these people apply immigration even they are not clear at this age what they want. Always find out problem in every system.

When they are frustrated in India they came here, now they are frustrated here going back to India.

Darwin's theory still true "Only those survive who has ability to change with time".

Rahul Singh,
This is
what i said :
"Tamil culture is not :
1. father and mother educated professionally and doing labour job."

This differs from what you have understood and stated from me.

TK

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Originally posted by morning_rain


Sorry for the harshness too..but I think you are expecting quite a lot from ur kids. They did not ask to be born. They dont owe u because you CHOSE to raise them and educate them. You should do that out of love. Love does not expect. If you want to be taken care of in old age..get a good retirement savings plan.

Im not being sarcastic. Im saying be realistic.

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