HOW DO YOUR INSPIRE YOUR CHILDREN TO ACHIEVE GREATER HEIGHTS?

I WANT TO CONCLUDE OF WHAT A GENTLEMAN SAID ON THE RADIO SHOW THIS AFTERNOON. HE ADVICED DO NOT GET MARRIED IF SO, DO NOT HAVE CHILDREN.

Not to marry is noble , like many saints in almost all religions.



HOW CAN I INSTILL A CONFIDENCE IN HER WHILE I AM A LABOURER PAID $12.5 AN HOUR. MY STATUS IS NOT GOOD IN CANADA.

We are from the Tajmahal Country . We talk about the king , we never talk about the Engineers who made it so beautiful . We always look down the labourers. Tell your child you are contributing for the Country . Develop the positive thinking. Your self pity will definitely make your child to look at you as a labourer. your status is honesty, your parents, your children, your friends and your quality values.



ANYWAY, I DONOT WANT TO TAKE ANY RISK IN THIS. AT THE AGE OF 5 OR 6 , SHE WILL BE PACKED TO INDIA AND IF NECESSARY, I WILL ALSO GO WITH HER.
TK

Indians have more chances to become Miss World and Miss universes , as per the statistics(?)



GETTING ADMISSION TO IIT/IIM IS NOT THE ONLY THING IN LIFE. THOSE ARE NOT THE ONLY SMARTEST PEOPLE ON EARTH. HERE IN THIS WESTERN WORLD THAT IS GOOD THING I LEARN.

I DID MY ENGINEERING FROM IIT AND I AM SAYING THAT.


Whether you are from IIT or ITI , common goal is the same ( Foran)



SIDENOTE : SANKARACHARYA, YOU ARE A PERSON FROM MY CULTURE AND LANGUAGE. DOES WHAT I SAY MAKE SENSE TO YOU? HAVE YOU EVER THOUGHT IN THE SAME WAY THAT I HAVE THOUGHT?
ALSO JRF, YOUR VIEWS WILL BE APPRICIATED.
SIDENOTE 2 : MY WIFE AGREES ON ALL THE POINTS EXCEPT LEAVING THE CHILD TO BE TAKEN CARE OF BY RELATIVES/ GRAND PARENTS


Whose culture has produced the Verappan? Out from the cocoon please .Knowing different cultures is knowledge. Character is not the property of Tamilians as you think . Common Tamils admired and made chief ministers from other cultures. The top film star in Tamilnad is an out sider.



THANKS FOR THIS POINTER. I'VE NOT BEEN IN THIS POSITION YET, BUT I'M RAISING HEAD STRONG KIDS (WONDER WHERE THEY GET IT FROM ). IT SURE HELPS TO HAVE THE PERSPECTIVE OF SOMEONE WHO GREW UP HERE, IF I EVER NEED IT (HOPEFULLY I WONT).

Children do inherit our characters some are known ,some are inherent within us unexpressive way. The character of acquiring bad things from outside are also descended from us or from those who brought us to this earth .



NOT ONLY TAMIL CULTURE BUT EVERY CULTURE EXCEPT GORA AND KALAS WANTS TO GROW THEIR CHILDREN IN GOOD ATMOSPHERE WHICH WE CAN'T FIND IT HERE..


If all our culture is so good , why we were enslaved by British. Nehru was asked by his classmate , Are you Indians are animals ? How few tens of thousand Goras could control Millions of Indians. We all left our mothers and mother land for few coins. When India is making good , we feel as if we are responsible for that. The average Indian on the street that really made India what it is today. I got stunned yesterday when a gora girl asked me about Ghandi and Buddha.



MY SON WOULD ALWAYS TAKE HIS PLATE TO THE SINK AFTER HE'S DONE WITH HIS FOOD.
LOCAL KIDS JUST WALKED AWAYMY SON NEVER MINDED TAKING THE LOCAL BUS OR WALKING TO THE MARKET OR OTHER PLACES.
LOCAL KIDS WOULD ONLY TRAVEL BY AUTOS OR CARS OR PILLION RIDE ON MOTORCYCLES.


We can INDIANISE the Canada. We shall not fear any other culture . The strong culture win over others. We Indians will take over the world within our life time.

WHAT HURTS ME IS WHEN I START COMPARING THE SCHOOL FACILITIES IN INDIA WITH US WHILE IN INDIA..COMPARING US SCHOOL FACILITIES WITH INDIA WHILE IN US.......

Yes ,you can never catch the shadow .



TAMIL CULTURE IS ENTIRELY DIFFT. FROM NORTH INDIAN ONE. TAMILS ARE BASICALLY MORE CONSERVATIVE, SENTIMENTAL, PRESERVE FAMILY VALUES, NOT CHANGED MUCH IN ATTITUDE WITH DECADES PASS BY.
BUT NORTH INDIAN SOCIETY HAS CHANGED A LOT WITH TIME, LESS FAMILY SENTIMENTS, MORE LIBERAL AND MORE MATERIALISTIC.
THESE WERE MY OBSERVATION


I was many a time referred as Tamilian ( Madrasi) in an abusive way while I was working in Northern India. HIV is high in South India of which Tamilandu is a part. i am a Telugu by birth nor i dont feel shame to be called Madrasi

PLEASE LEAVE THIS CULTURE COMPARISON BEHIND.. YOU CAN'T GENERALIZE NORTH OR SOUTH. IT DEPENDS ON INDIVIDUALS..


Well said

I STILL HAVE MY FAMILY INCLUDING ANOTHER BROTHER IN INDIA AND HIS LIFESTYLE IS MORE WESTERNISED THAN MINE


Possible. I know a British Indian refused to accept an Indian as Bahu because she was MODERN.


THE ONLY PERSON HERE WITH ANY BRAINS SEEMS TO BE MORNING_RAIN. I SALUTE YOU. ANYONE WHO RAISES A HAND ON A CHILD, SHOULD BE KICKED IN THE NUTS. I AM SO GLAD THAT MY PARENTS NEVER HIT ME. I LOVE THEM MORE THAN ANYTHING IN THE WORLD.

My Parents did raised their hands( That is how spoken in Telugu). SPARE THE ROD SPOIL THE CHILD -is it an English proverb? I am really not sure .All children will love their parents except those who hated their parents.


I THINK 2ND GENERATION YOUTH ARE ALL VERY VERY DIFFERENT

I have experience with second , third and fourth generation Indians from Guyana, Africa, America, Canada, England etc. You can identify them even without speaking to them. You will loose the Indian shining on your face within one generation.

THE FACT THAT YOU ARE STILL DISCUSSING ON THIS BOARD IS BECAUSE YOU ARE UNSURE OF YOUR DECISION. IF YOU WERE CONVINCED ABOUT IT YOU WOULD HAVE JUST LEFT FOR INDIA CHUP CHAP..... .


Why do you advise some one to leave . Advice him to baptize all Canadians into Indians .Canada is not of Goras neither originally nor eternally . All goras will have a third or fourth place after Chinese , Indians etc. Soon , in our life time. I have no problem with goras. I like their colour and to their dis advantage I may( may not) look unwanted among them. I can still bother them that way. It may be their problem. I did not see any racist discrimination in Canada.

MOST OF THE INDIANS I HAVE MET IN CANADA ARE UNHAPPY. EVEN THOSE WITH GOOD JOBS IN THEIR OWN FIELD. I WONDER IF IT IS THE SAME IN USA OR THIS IS TYPICAL CANADIAN TRAIT ?

In any society happy are in minority . Happiness ends with fulfillment of a desire. Unhappiness is the space between too dots of desires.

Rajuu garu Namskaram

I think this post should endup with your long posting....

By all the means you touched all kinds of ??? raised by so many CD members...

cmanyam

Abu dhabi

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