Posted on: 06-10-05 13:10:43
New Guy,
What was the purpose of your lamenting in the first instance?
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HOPE
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I can't imagine having kids if I do not have guts to manage with them in any situation.......sad!!!! All damn reasons are BS for me....a mother or father cannot take care of their own children...what BS!!!....
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Very well said!
One my my desi friend exactly did the same thing (5 year old son) myself and wife always use to discuss how could parents keep themselves away from their children just for their personal aim
All damn reasons are BS ..100% agree with charlie's comment.
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ani
It's damn hard to live away from children. I donno how people do it. Mother one place, Father one and child another, and wife that too unknown place like CA. I feel considering the modern realities of the present world father can be away for a while but not mother and child afterall wha's the purpose of making money.
I stayed away from my family for a year as a man I felt this place hard for a newcomer without any emotional support
I agree!
I've never lived separate from my family for more than 10 days at a time since Ive been married to my wife. Infact people cannot understand why my family comes back, from India with me, when I was the only person working...and the wife was stay-at-home mom. Everybody else leaves their family behind for 3-6 months. BS! Why do people get married if they live separate even for 6 months. How can people leave their family and go abrroad to work just for money. Especially when I recently turned down a well paying job in calif since I would have to go there by myself initially
ALL BS!!!! All excuses!!!
Wait a minute...maybe I'm not like them, dont know their unique situations in detail, the framework of their relationships and needs...so I should not judge them? 
Maybe newguy and wife have made their own decision, keeping in mind their own needs and priorities. What good would a family be to a child if they were under the same roof but depressed and fighting with each other? Would it be better if all were depressed and newguy or wife did something foolish(remember the family in KSA) because they could not handle the financial stress?
Maybe...
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Do you mean to say that people who are in the Military or Merchant navy, who, without choice , have to be away from the family should not get married?
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Why do people get married if they live separate even for 6 months. How can people leave their family and go abrroad to work just for money. Especially when I recently turned down a well paying job in calif since I would have to go there by myself initially
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Orginally posted by Hope
Do you mean to say that people who are in the Military or Merchant navy, who, without choice , have to be away from the family should not get married?
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Yes I think that, if I were to apply my standards to them( Isnt that what the others are doing with new guy anyway?).
BUT. they are not me and viceversa...which is the point I am making in defence of newguy.
I think you missed that did you not?
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HEY YOU DO WHAT YOU NEED TO DO. YOUR KID IS YOUNG AS YET AND I AM SURE YOUR PARENTS LOVE HIM. MAKE HIM A SAECURE HOME AND BRING HIM WHEN HE IS OLD ENOUGH TO GO TO DAY CARE, TAKE CARE AND BEST OF LUCK.
WE ALL LEAVE OUR CONTRY TO GIVE AUR KIDS A BETTER HOME. AND THEY WILL UNDERSATAND IT . GRAND PARENTS ARE GOOD FOR CHILDREN .
