Does "desi" ladies tend to get offended if approached by an unknown "desi" man during social/business situations. Many of times, I have felt that if I try to initiate a conversation or even a simple query, they think that I am "hitting on her". I wonder if my feeling is true or not. I may be stereotyping, but I have seen these tendencies in "desi" ladies. Why do they feel so insecure?

IMO, one thing they should realise that not every men is interested in flirting with them nor they are worth flirting. Why can't a man carry a normal conversation with a stranger with no sexual overtones? Esp. in professional world, one has to realise that it helps to build a network and it doesn't matter, which gender you are networking with.

Thats so funny. However, man can turn off simple conversation by showing .. i m not interested in you..
have you had worked in corporate environment...which is very social and professional.. its all same in the world. not desi or gora.. its all same..

if girl is very good looking...guys shows interest..even in meetings.. but the interest is limited to professional...and managers..like this attitude..however, they prefer.. u shd hve quality.. LOL>>>>> but this is true..
but all is professional... no one use or go beyond their limit...
what's wrong..if someone is good looking..and ppl.. shows interest or admire...


may be check..next time.. with desi girl..even she is not a beauty just admire her...she will not turn off you..
so much difference..in admiring...and flirting somoene...i guess, if we give proper respect.. then it should come out automatic.. in attitude..

same go for man..a big 'ego'...tht is true for desi or non desi..see..when any women talks with guy...and dont respect their ego.. see, how conversation ends...
read the book.. man are from mars and women are from venus..

earth is round..everywhere its same..in india.. or desi..in past ppl..didnt expersince this when..women was not working.. but now..even its same in india..

its just matter of attitude...if we put..tht correctly no one will turn off. i guess, this will help.. hwever, i hve to also work and improve everyday.. nothing personnel.

If you have a female colleague that you know or trust for their honest opinion, ask them. You may hear something that you dont want to so be prepared.

When you talk to a woman, be conscious of where your eyes are. How close or far you stand. Do you smile too much/too little?

It may or may not be a desi 'thing', but if a woman's gut instinct is telling her that you are flirting, it may be because your body language is coming across that way. I would definately get a second opinion from a woman that you know.

No offense, but from your post, I get the sense that you dont respect Indian woman, as a group.

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PPL act differently with unknown..or little know female to very good female friend..or mother, sister...it will not help to ask female friend.
however other points was correct... look at your body language..


also, try to speak out..desi gals is same...as other women.. there are guys.. who can talk and be very popular..with desi gals..too.. they just know how to talk..properly..ad same person found..fit very easy in corporate environmental..bcoz they know professional attitude.

If you meet any desi gals... if she is mother of small kids..start topic about kids..she will even not stop..
if she is recently married...then just ask about do you like new place.. or abt husband..or abt her parents...or about her education...she will go on....and on talking..

IMO, it depends how u come across. In my case, I mention abt my wife and kids in the beginning so teh ladies will be more secure. Sure I have flirted, but it stops there, nothing beyond it. I have flirted with other ladies in the presence of my wife. But she knows where I stop. Its like informal chat as if the lady is/was a friend.

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IMO, one thing they should realise that not every men is interested in flirting with them nor they are worth flirting.

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Originally posted by meghal
IMO, one thing they should realise that not every men is interested in flirting with them nor they are worth flirting.

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nor they are worth flirting ... interesting

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