Men only party-what's wrong with the wives
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Couple of weeks back I had invited couple of my desi friends for a weekend party. Men only, with beer, pizza and fries. Nothing else. Things were good for the first half hour. Then the calls started coming to two of them from their wives and children to see if the party was done. I think the wives were using the kids to call the dads. I was really annoyed. At one time I grabbed the cell from one of them who got the call the nth time and told his wife if she was jealous and insecure, she was welcome to join us for beer and pizza. One of the other wives was giving the grocery list, that would be got next day. The calls were getting so frequent, that two of them had to leave in about two hours. Next day the lady to whom I had given piece of my mind called and started giving a lecture regarding how people need to attend parties as a family. Well, I asked her if they were going to do the same in a party what her husband was doing at my place. I asked her point blank what was her problem if he partied with other men he knows. She avoided my qn and started talking something else. By that itme I was fed up and told her to tie a leash around the guy's neck and take him wherever she goes and then hung up. I dont think I will invite him again for the next get together.
I dont understand this with the desis folks. What is wrong with couple of men getting together and have a good time. Just beer, pizza and talk what they want. May be rant, complain and take stuff off their chest. Why the wives have to be jealous and insecure. Are they thinking that the husbdands will spill out the truth? Those skeletons in the closet. Even if they go as a family, they would be doing the same. Men on one side, women on the other side of the house (there may net be beer and pizza and talk what they want).
Like to get views mainly from the married, specifically women.
KM
Location: Somewhere in dreamland
Posted on: 28-02-10 06:32:01
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Originally posted by KumarM
I dont understand this with the desis folks. What is wrong with couple of men getting together and have a good time. Just beer, pizza and talk what they want. May be rant, complain and take stuff off their chest. Why the wives have to be jealous and insecure. Are they thinking that the husbdands will spill out the truth?
KM
They may be worried about the kind of friends their husband are getting into company of.
I don't mean you are bad, but bad company will be bad for their family.
Well ! i like the idea, why not ? becaz' in my case i ll rather encourage my husband to enjoy himself(no wonder in his absence i can also have my own time) .Everybody needs life man...............
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rajas
Yeah, maybe they thought you had invited a stripper to top off the beer and pizza. hey what's wrong with a boys night out? 
I am lucky my wife gives me my space with my friends and I give her space with hers and am happily married for over 20 years.
By the way next time call me I will bring the beer.
For a change, why don't you all handle kids and let us (ladies) party and give breathing space.
let me tell you, within one hour of our going, you will go crazy with the kids and appreciate us handling kids and home front.
enjoy youtube :
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k_OWPWBjgoo
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The best way to find yourself is to lose yourself in the service of others.”
Mahatma Gandhi
All those calls from the wives and the kids came out of two words "INSECURITY" and "JEALOUSY". Sure an Indian wife can not stand the very thought of her husband having a good time, WITHOUT HER. Besides there is always the lurking suspicions - Is my guy having a good time with a dame?........ Is he having a great time with booze?
So then the next question is "how can I have him do this, while I am not around"? After all, he is only supposed to be devoted to me and the kids, not the booze, not the fun, not the friends, and not certainly to the "Tawaif".
Thanks to Bollywood, where the heroine waits on the "Karva Chauth" day to look at the moon, and break her fast......... and presto walks our great hero, staggering with all the booze in him, after the last mujra that he has been to........The next thing we know she helps him to his bed and removes his Nike shoes. Before long, he is singing "Choo Lene Do Nazuk Honton Ko".............
Deja Vu, perhaps?
"INSECURITY" and "JEALOUSY" /Tawaif/Karva Chauth/Choo Lene Do Nazuk Honton Ko/booze
looks like a script for/of ZTV/Sas Bahu serials
