My name is pooja

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I got married on 9th of May 2004 , from the day i got married I am going through enormous mental stress. I had to move to a different city after getting married . I am not very happy i keep having constant fights with my husband as i had an inter caste marriage and am away from my place of birth . my mother in law also does not like me at all , my husband is the only child and he is totally a mother boy

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Please help me to suggest remedies to have a child and to get back to my place of birth that is New Delhi . My moms health is not very good hence i want to get back to new delhi asap

please help me

regards
pooja

Sorry - a personal question - If you are having problems in marriage, why would you want a child ?

My first reply is definetely off topic. However....

Why would you want to give out personal info on a public forum such as full name and DOB ??????

Think identity theft !!!

Now to respond to your query...
I don't mean to offend your beliefs in astrology. However, have you and your husband considered practical solutions? If you both are in constant argument, is it possible to have a child? Getting pregnant and having a child is not a simple mechanical function. There needs to be a certain level of intimacy. Fighting does not help build that intimacy.

Also, if you want to return to Delhi (assuming by yourself), again, how will you have a child, or why would you want to have a child when you might be raising the child yourself? What are you trying to achieve?

Unfortunately, unless you and your husband are a team standing firm together, you may continue to face these issues. If I were you, I would try to fix the problems between you both. And this is again an effort that should be taken by both you and your husband.

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Dimple2001

Dear Pooja, this is a very personal and intimate question, not meant for sites. Still I'll say I fully agree with Dimple, you and only both of you can resolve your marriage, sorry if I say so but please don't go to astrologers/pandits for your personal problems, no sarp dosh caused it and no pandit can remove it. Communication is the key for a successful marriage, so please talk to your husband. If possible go to a marriage counselor if you think outside help is needed. Children, happiness automatically follows once the partners are out of stress and happy.

Hope it helps anyway.

Jona

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I got married on 9th of May 2004 , from the day i got married I am going through enormous mental stress. I had to move to a different city after getting married . I am not very happy i keep having constant fights with my husband as i had an inter caste marriage and am away from my place of birth . my mother in law also does not like me at all , my husband is the only child and he is totally a mother boy

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HI Pooja,
There are always difference of opinion regarding astrological remedy.
However, If you want some guidance you can contact on this no. 647-831-4142.
Every cloud has shining line. Do not worry and be happy. Trust in GOD.

I've edited the pesonal information (fullnames and birthdates) for now. I cannot stop you from posting it if you really want to, however it is not a good idea to post fullname, DOB, place of birth etc. on the net.

I sympathize with your situation but please know that most wives feel their husbands are mama's boys. And the in-law conflict is as old as marriage itself; hopefully this alone isn't causing you enormous mental stress. If it is more than that, which seems to be the case, it might be a good idea for both of you to seek professional counselling if available.

And why are you not able to visit your Mom who is unwell?

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