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Orginally posted by Proud Indian
so i just want a frank opinion that what should i do ? Shall i go back? or keep on struggling.
Positive enthusiasm and continuing to put efforts is definitely good, but you also have to draw a line somewhere depending on available opportunities. If you are getting a good job in your old company, by all means go back. Yes, your daughter and family needs you more than they need Canada.
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wisernow
Location: in the heart of Mrs Saga
Posted on: 24-06-04 11:47:56
yes, I think you should not miss the oppurtunity back home, and you can always come back later on if you feel the need, (and hopefully things might be better here in the future).
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Deal With Reality or Reality Will Deal With You
Hi Proud Indian
Better you take it in writing if possible from your old company if they wish to employ you again, back home. If you get it in writing and if the company is medium or a large one, by all means go ahead.
Vijesh
PI,
I used to be of a different opinion about people going back to india. But after reading your post it feels you will be better off there with regards to your immediate job search , if your company is making you a better offer...and you feel that is what you wan then dont look back and go ahead. You are the best judge for youeself.
Evaluate both long and shortterm pro and cons for your family before making the move.
Wish you all the success.
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Orginally posted by Proud Indian
so i just want a frank opinion that what should i do ? Shall i go back? or keep on struggling.
Contrary to what others have written, I would say - DON'T go back. One of my friends always tells me that God tests your patience before giving you what you want. If not for anything else, just wait to get your citizenship atleast - it might prove to be a great asset in future - if not for you, for your daughter may be.
This is a period when short term gains might prove very tempting, but believe me, 2-3 years is a short time to try out something in life which you might NEVER receive back in India - a clean living and a chance for your daughter to grown up in perhaps a better surrounding. And if you are able to instill family values in her, she will, when she grows up, be thankful to you for your hard work and that struggle of yours will be her strength.
This comes from a person who is struggling to make a space for himself in Canada for almost three years now!!
Chandresh
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Chandresh
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Dear Anandramnath,
The genaral feeling one gets from your post is that you are not happy in canada and believe at the moment that you were happier in India.
In my opinion, you should sit down and think about this for a few days. Take the advise offered, but don't take any hasty decisions.
All the best !!
Ayaskant.
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Just a suggestion, instead of mentioning "my field job" mention what field is it? You never know where an opportunity comes along.
My experience trying to help new immigrants haven't been good. They have very high expectations and low reliability.
There is no free lunch!
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I have tried lot of places for my field job but it is now almost 2 years but still nothing has come out of it and i m doing a labour job.
