Is flirting on the Net cheating?


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SB_9999   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 18-06-08 11:02:36

Saw this on Times of India , Jun 17,2008 (http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/debate/3138656.cms)
and wondered what CD's have to say about this?


Is your significant other spending hours chatting up women, or men for that matter, on the Internet? Or does your partner insist on checking out pictures of men, women - anything goes, as long as the pictures are droolworthy! What do you do if he or she visits social networking sites at all hours of the day or night to talk and flirt with old and new 'friends'? Do you dismiss it as harmless fun or do you scrutinise each scrap and downloaded picture - wondering if it's time to show him or her the door!



morning_rain   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 18-06-08 13:39:14

I think it depends. if you have friends of the opposite gender on Social networking sites like facebook I dont think that constitutes cheating.

If the partner is spending hours on the net chatting to others and ignoring the spouse, and it is becoming an issue in the marriage then yes - its too much.

Chatting about certain very personal topics online with strangers, or having "cyberfun" is cheating in my book. You are sharing intimacy, fantasy with other people, not your spouse.

I think flirting with anyone else is in poor taste even though it may not technically be cheating.


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Trinity   
Member since: May 06
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Location: Mississauga/ Toronto, Can

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 18-06-08 14:19:06

Quote:
Originally posted by SB_9999

Saw this on Times of India , Jun 17,2008 (http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/debate/3138656.cms)
and wondered what CD's have to say about this?


Is your significant other spending hours chatting up women, or men for that matter, on the Internet? Or does your partner insist on checking out pictures of men, women - anything goes, as long as the pictures are droolworthy! What do you do if he or she visits social networking sites at all hours of the day or night to talk and flirt with old and new 'friends'? Do you dismiss it as harmless fun or do you scrutinise each scrap and downloaded picture - wondering if it's time to show him or her the door!



My take on this, assuming your spouse or partner was sitting next to you and you both are still comfortable doing what you were doing (chatting, scrapping, gaming), all is fine. If you have nothing to hide and do not feel guilty at some level, it should be ok.

Trinity





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