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Orginally posted by Manasvi

"Love and sex fade over time my friend , its the companionship which remains " .

Manasvi.

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I quite dont agree with that.... maybe sex fades away with time...but love?? I feel that would only grow stronger and stronger with time..... Companionship comes with time.... both the patners have to be understanging...have a lot of patience with each other...and most importantly respect each other and yes..communicate a whole lot...about everything.

I dont want to sound like miss know it all( or in my case "mrs") ..am only in my first year of marriage.... and thats what i have summed up so far.

love or arranged..?? well...its all in the attutude.....u are committed enough? want a good and happy life....well u can have it. theres a lot of compromise involved here too... sometimes u've got to put ur wishes on the back burner for a while..and sometime ur partner has got to do that...but both shudnt ever take each other for granted.There shud be a common goal in life which is very important for both partners.

wat say those who've been there and seen it..??

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Orginally posted by Ottawa_Nerd

.. When you love someone, you should do that from your heart and not cos you "like the way she looks"... We have all heard it, but when it comes to implement it we back off...I was once upon a time like that too... a hypocrite... with my marriage, I can say I have let go off my past

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Marriage does that to u..doesnt it?? i feel i've changed for the better too..and its all out of love. mine is arranged....and we both are very happy together... ON ..urs is love......and seems like u are very happy. so does it make a difference...whether its love or arranged?? all that matter is whether 2 ppl are happy together. thats wat marriage is about...