I am not coming to Canada, No no - Coming Now! By: Dear All, article.php?id=62 |
My Dear friend OneIsACrowd,
Aap kahan the?...There are some 6500 members viewed the thread. Koi baat nahin.."DER AYE DURUST AYE"... Welcome to my so-called negative thread. Sometimes I go back to my post and try to read it again and again and try to make a feel, that whether it really conveys negativity? I am a man who has only one asset, i.e. POSITIVE ATTITUDE, and how come my post leaves such an impression?
To reply your concern, let me tell you, it is people like me, who share the inner part of their heart, mind whatever, while going through the 3/4 years of journey (till one gets VISA). What I have done is "JUST SHARED WHAT I THOUGHT AT THAT POINT OF TIME" and time and again I have mentioned in this thread and in other posts, that I go on three "SA" (Pronounce Gujarati), "STHAL", "SANJOG" ane "SAMAY". I mean three factors, "PLACE", "CIRCUIMSTANCE" and "TIME". What I believe is you can't plan everything in your life. My dear friend it’s not easy for a human to convey his final bottom-line for any project like this. It’s not a joke. It’s a question of life. It was 27th July I had written that “I am not coming to Canada”, that does not mean it may stay forever. In fact few of my friends in CD only knows I have been learning/surveying a lot in parallel about Canadian conditions etc.. if I plan to come to Canada. That does not mean I am not doing good in India or India is bad. If I leave India in future, it would not be because INDIA is bad, but It may be because “CANADA IS GOOD for ME” on the basis of one of the above 3 factors. In reverse if I don’t come to Canada, it does not mean that CANADA IS BAD. It is because INDIA is GOOD for me at that time.
What’s wrong in that? “HAR INSAAN KO WAQT KE SATH CHALNA HOTA HAI. YOU CAN”T BE SAME FOR EVER”.
See friend, why I am going away from this word “PLANNING” now, do you know?.. Let me tell you, I am one of those lucky survivors, who have seen death dancing in front of him in the horrible EARTHQUAKE of Gujarat. Yes, just due to few seconds I could save my self and I saw thousands dying in seconds in front of me (may be one day I will share my ANUBHAV on that 26th JANUARY day). So our friend OTTAWA-NERD ka sentence hai na (I always like that)..”PLANNING BLANNING HO GAI BORING, BOTTLE KHOLING DARU POURING”…Yeh hi hakikat hai. Uparwale ne ek mauka diya hai INSAAN banke jineka..let’s live like that. Koi bhi Bhumi ho, kya farak padta hai.
See the word Research for an immigration project should not be a restricted, I mean you will have to keep on updating yourself with each and every stage. Its like research before applying, research after filing papers, research in the mid-way and research at the end after getting the VISAs, your research will be of a different nature everytime. So to correct yourself, it was not like what you have mentioned, “Without research I planned” and then said I am not coming. I am trying to keep both things apart. One’s decision is driven with one’s life, how it changes the colors at different levels. Its all about, Gujarati jante ho?..there is a saying “PADE AVI DEVAY”…I mean “you will fight as it comes”.
As far as my kind of people slowing down embassy’s process, I really can’t say. I mean it’s a possibility existing in the system, that’s why people go back to their home country. If it were not there, no body would have thought about it. So is it my fault or it is an available feature of the immigration system?…
Rest, I really do not know, whether I have been able to convey what I wish to. But “AGE AGE DEKHO HOTA HAI KYA”… SHAYAD HUM BHI KOI CD MEETING MAIN KHADE HOKE APNA CONTRIBUTION DETE HO..kise pata hai… (sorry BL, for CAPS writing maaf karna thoda bhai ko highlite karke bataya…)
Bye for now…and keep in touch…
Rgds,
VJ.
dear VJ
ur decision is very right to a lot of extent; could u pls send me ur direct email id so that i can share some of my experiences directly also with you and they could be a bit longish thats why not that enthu to post on canadiandesi website and am sure i can help u to know more how to tackle this situation from my viewpoint .
bye
sanjiv
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Hi email2sanjivk,
I was surprised to see a post to this very old thread. I felt like, someone removed the dust from an old book found.
Before replying to you, I would suggest to read my own thread named "I AM COMING TO CANADA". However you can PM me for your other concerns and queries.
Regards,
VJ
I dont know why you changed your decision and under what circumstances but i would like to say is that i have the same situation as you , i am sitting in US and going back next year to India, I have my parents in India and whenever they ask me Son how are you? and tell me that they were sick for sometimes, it brings tears to my eyes..All their life they spent so much energy time and money for us to make us something..Noone wants to be a hurdle in our way, Our parents also want us to go places , see the world make money but i think we owe them something, if that can be attained in India then why not do it.
Again its my personal opinion, Swear or Curse its all mine!!
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Ashish
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I dont know why you changed your decision and under what circumstances but i would like to say is that i have the same situation as you , i am sitting in US and going back next year to India, I have my parents in India and whenever they ask me Son how are you? and tell me that they were sick for sometimes, it brings tears to my eyes..All their life they spent so much energy time and money for us to make us something..Noone wants to be a hurdle in our way, Our parents also want us to go places , see the world make money but i think we owe them something, if that can be attained in India then why not do it.
Again its my personal opinion, Swear or Curse its all mine!!
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Do or Die.....
I am locking this thread.
If you would like to discuss this please do it so on
http://www.canadiandesi.com/read.php?TID=5470
As VJ explained there why he changed his mind and coming here.
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