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BlueLobster   
Member since: Oct 02
Posts: 3409
Location: Mississauga

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 25-04-04 11:21:35

Well said, Jake. I do exactly the same thing and really haven't had any isues with racism in Canada. Why should I be shouldering somebody else's issue? I honestly feel a bigot DESERVES the life he/she lives, I'm too busy to bother.

Yes, it is rather sad to read a story like these and it touches all of us. But that would be my first response. The immediate second one should be "What can I do differently so as to avoid the same pitfalls?" Surely there must be something we can do. To me, rational thinking and adaptability is the only way out of this.


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Ottawa_Nerd   
Member since: Jan 04
Posts: 1754
Location: Ottawa (Now in Bangalore)

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 25-04-04 21:24:41

Quote:
Orginally posted by deepcb

Whatver has happened is really sad.....

I would like to highlight some points that migh help new comers......

The reasons for rejection of these Pakistani friends is simple.......they basically did not fit in.........

One should realise that its not education or Big degrees that gives you acceptance in Canadian society...at least when you are a newcomer looking for JOBS....

1. Good English skills
2. Twisted accent a plus point
3. Smart appearance
4 Wear modern dress like Canadians
5. Modern outlook
6. Should not have RELEGIOUS name...that will cause rejection of CV......especially after 9/11
7. Dont highlight your country of origin in your CV
8. Middle East origin a natural rejection
9. Traditional / Relegious behaviour a disqualification

You cant blame Canadians for being biased...I will give a Scenario...

Suppose you are a Gujrati businessman having a business in Bombay.......and you are looking for an Accountant.........You gave ad. in News paper and got few CV's.

1. A Gujrati CA
2. A Bombay guy M.Com
3. A Madrasi CA
4. A CA from Somalia

Tell me if you are the Director of the company who would you offer job..... I wil brief my views

1. Gujrati...ok he speaks my language and is a CA lets call him for int.
2. Bombayite...He is an M.com..and knows the local market...ok lets call him for interview
3. oh....this guy is from Madras...doesn't know hindi..no experience in Bombay....will consider later...
4. Somalia !@#$%$% that means Africa... He claims to be CA..how would I beleive him???Is his degree real? Is he a trustworthy guy? Does he know the job? He looks different...speaks different language.... Most probably reply in NOOOOOOOOO...


This is the natural instinct of any human being....Hence I dont blame Canadians treating Indians / Asians that way.... when you apply for job in Canada...a white Canadian boss will be happy to take a white guy with half qualification and experience than a qualified Asaian....

This is a natural process :

1. In the Gulf..Arabs have priority for Jobs
2. In West....Whites have priority for Jobs

Nobody invited us to Canada..we ourselves went to this so called..developed Rich country..1st world.........

Keep trying........you win some...loose some........Everything is not justified in this world....


Regards,

Deep













Deep kya bindaas bola baap ! Ekdum sollid hai

By religious you mean MUSLIM name ? Suppose if your name is HareKrishna Sharma or Shiv Shankar Prasad (they are also religious names)...do you think these ppl also will get rejected ? As for a twisted accent, you do not need such an accent if ur job involves programming and such stuff... It is a must if you have to do PR stuff/marketing

BL what do you mean by rational thinking ?


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regar   
Member since: Aug 06
Posts: 135
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 20-11-06 00:18:09

I think if u have the right attitude and will to succeed you will whatever the age and place here in canada .
What matters is what field you are looking for ,how flexible you are and how long you can struggle as success comes for all ...sooner for some and later for others and quitters will not succeed either here or any where in the world.
The link below a sign of encouragement for those over 40 or even 50 starting afresh


http://www.workopolis.com/servlet/Content/torontostar/20061111/star20061111?section=TORSTAR



Ranin   
Member since: Aug 04
Posts: 281
Location: Guelph, ON

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 20-11-06 11:18:25

There are certain things you can’t change, your past and your skin colour (sorry Michael Jackson). There are certainly a lot you can change. CHANGE is the key word.
1. Attitude (first thing to change ASAP, soon after you land)! Be positive. If you start negative, you will remain that. As skepticism begets negativity and has geometric multiplicity.
2. If you want others not to take consider your skin colour in the interactions, don’t recon skin colour of other person while you interact.
3. If you think that you are qualified enough for a good job, don’t wait for that to materialize, get into job market, whichever rung, and work your way up, by upgrading to Canadian degree/diploma/certificate. There is a saying in Hindi,
“Aam se lade hue pedh (tree) jhuke hue rahate hain, nahi to toot jayenge” (fruit laden trees droop or else they will break. Learn to be honest but humble.



Loser   
Member since: Sep 04
Posts: 1052
Location: Nice ,USA

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 20-11-06 13:03:13

What i have realised after working in canada for two years is that the "Canadians" are worried and scared of the Asian foreigners superiority.

there is an underlying fear and surprise that these guys are coming from a starving country (Bhukha Nanga) and yet there expertise is same if not more then us.

This makes them nervous and insecure.


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Loser Two   
Member since: Nov 06
Posts: 17
Location:

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 20-11-06 21:24:32

My dear friend,

They have reserve monies in Trillions.

What you and me or others are getting is peanuts.............
Do not under estimate their wealthiness.

If you happend to travel on QEW in the Ontario Province, you will see south of QEW, the richness of Canadians................Like Kings Palaces.....


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