Taking of Spinoff from the previous thread
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on the serious note I would like to summarise with ...
When we were using our hearts more than our brains, even for scientifically brainy activities like 'thinking' and 'deciding'...
When we were crying and laughing more often, more openly and more sincerely...
When being emotional was not synonymous to being weak ...
Nice observation meghal.
But I believe there should have been a more important reason for males never being able to express their feelings or cry in public beyond the Samaj kya kaheja..samaj kya sochega..syndrome. One reason I feel was that men were (in the good old days) looked upon for physical and emotional stability of thier families and obviously you can imagine the emotional stress on other family members if thier men break down in public... As women started taking more responsibilites for the family and exploring the world outside the homes, this behaviour is starting to change slowly. I am referring to only the emotional outburst or the crying aspect for men here.
We always had male leads crying on the screen though...doesnt matter if they used glycerin to cry, they made you cry too... (either for the emotions or for losing your money...)
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