A MESSAGE FOR ALL THOSE BRICKBATS, CHOICEST ABUSES & EPITHETS HURLED.


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STHIRU18   
Member since: Apr 04
Posts: 103
Location: MISSISSAUGA

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 10-09-05 18:52:51

I have been in Canada for over 5 years. It is a friend of mine who mentioned this website, and I have been hooked on it, ever since.

I have a master's in business admn, am going back to school, and I own two businesses. I am still on my way to the top (because the word \"top\" is very relative). Relatively speaking, success hasn't come to me easily. I am proud of the long hours, focus and the \"never give up\" attitude, which has given me the lifestyle, the satisfaction and contentment in life.

I have had a lot of brick bats, four letter words (thanks, recently to oen of my great friends here), curses and the choicest epithets hurled on me. I will not respond because it isn't necessary.

I have disagreed with most of those who constantly gripe, complain and curse the system here. Like some of my fellow viewers would agree, it does no one good, except to show us Indians in bad light.

I agree that some people have grievances about the sytem here, the fact that their credentials are not recognized, and that they are under employed. Let us face the truth with courage instead of fretting and fuming (because that us no good))

Neither the Canadian Government nor the High commision abroad promises employment, prosperity or a great lifestyle. No where have I come across a brochure, or any form of literature that promises this. All of this is our assumption.

We came with the assumption that it would be all hunky dory from day one, that we would have the same \"status\" as back home, and that we would get all the recognition from day one. We also assumed that we would get hired in highly paid positions from day one.

Having done that why do we talk of \"racism\" \"discrimination\", \" corrupt governence\" \"class action suits\" and so forth.

Let us come to the bare truths. Assuming that some of this is true, what is the choice we have?

1) \"Fight for our rights\" as one desi suggested?
2) \"Grin and bear it\", but fret and fume on the forums here?
3) Wait patiently till we get our citizenship and look for jobs south of the border?
4) Go back to India and regain our lost glory, lifestyle and riches?
5) Be innovative, navigate the system, not think of our past life, and start a new life in a different area or career (as a lot of Indians do)

I have seen more of my share of people who have worked hard, turned hostility, adversity into opportunities and are making 5 figure incomes. To someone who sees nothing but despair, darkness and misfortune, there is little solace I can offer, On the other hand I will have lots to share with people who share my enthusiasm, optimism and courage.

I am sure I will have cynics throw their choicest curse on me, but that wouldn't matter. I am proud of having made it ( and I will make it very big, some day soon!).

To those who felt hurt by my \" stop cribbing, go back to where you came from\" stuff, my sincere apologies, but please for your sake, and for the sake of countless others who see happiness, peace, and prosperity, please don't give up!



Rajeev Narula   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 10-09-05 23:28:37

Excellent! I couldn't have said it better myself!!

Thank You.


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duncan   
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Post ID: #PID Posted on: 11-09-05 00:15:26

well STHIRU18, nothing better then that. it just shows us the positive attitude and thinking. and I bet if u have +ve mind u will do wonders in this world. similar thread on positive attitude for new immigrants is posted few weeks back by me on this thread.
who think canada is worst place? A must read for new immigrants. http://canadiandesi.com/read.php?TID=9879
you are doing great bro, keep it up :cheers:


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PMA   
Member since: Apr 05
Posts: 81
Location: Toronto (Now in India)

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 11-09-05 03:11:48

Hi STHIRU18

You have posted really very good Article. My Hearty Congratulations for your Success in Canada. I am sure you will inspire Immigrants in making their path to Success.

Thanks for sharing.

PMA.


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DiogenestheCynic   
Member since: Oct 04
Posts: 859
Location: At my desk

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 11-09-05 11:11:05

Quote:
Orginally posted by STHIRU18
I have a master's in business admn, am going back to school, and I own two businesses. I am still on my way to the top (because the word \"top\" is very relative).


I presume you must have come with a lot of money to end up owning 2 businesses in 5 years.

Else please be a litte more specific and let everybody know what exactly you did that made you succeed, other than the +ve attitude.

Now don't you think that would be more help than just sermonizing and giving gyan?

Also remember, most immigrants come here in the skilled worker category looking for employment and not to set up businesses.

Just as you sing praises for Canada because you have been able to make it, there are those who curse Canada because they have not been able to make it good. Why do you condemn them for venting their opinions?
Quote:
Orginally posted by STHIRU18
Relatively speaking, success hasn't come to me easily. I am proud of the long hours, focus and the \"never give up\" attitude, which has given me the lifestyle, the satisfaction and contentment in life.


It would be interesting to know more details of what you were doing during the "long hours". Also, what impediments and hardships you encountered against which you persevered with the "never give up" attitude and how that helped?

Is not the fact that the immigrants are still here even though they are doing jobs they wish they didn't, an evidence of the "never give up attitude" also?
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Orginally posted by STHIRU18
Let us face the truth with courage instead of fretting and fuming (because that us no good))


Why can't both be done at the same time? Fretting and fuming is a way to vent emotions and that helps survive.
Quote:
Orginally posted by STHIRU18
Neither the Canadian Government nor the High commision abroad promises employment, prosperity or a great lifestyle. No where have I come across a brochure, or any form of literature that promises this. All of this is our assumption.


Has anyone claimed that the Canadian govt advertized in the manner you describe? No! They why the hell do you keep repeating that over and over again?
Quote:
Orginally posted by STHIRU18
We came with the assumption that it would be all hunky dory from day one,


No we didn't. Hunky dory after a few weeks or a few months perhaps, yes.
Quote:
Orginally posted by STHIRU18
that we would have the same \"status\" as back home,


No we didn't. Not the status back home, but not the status of a labor job either!
Quote:
Orginally posted by STHIRU18
We also assumed that we would get hired in highly paid positions from day one.


No we didn't! Reasonably paid positions after a few weeks or months, yes.
Quote:
Orginally posted by STHIRU18
Having done that why do we talk of \"racism\" \"discrimination\", \" corrupt governence\" \"class action suits\" and so forth.


If the same person can get a job south of the border but not here, what else is to be believed?
Quote:
Orginally posted by STHIRU18
what is the choice we have?
1) \"Fight for our rights\" as one desi suggested?
2) \"Grin and bear it\", but fret and fume on the forums here?
5) Be innovative, navigate the system, not think of our past life, and start a new life in a different area or career (as a lot of Indians do)


What if someone wants to do all of these at the same time? Why do they have to be mutually exclusive?
Quote:
Orginally posted by STHIRU18
I have seen more of my share of people who have worked hard, turned hostility, adversity into opportunities and are making 5 figure incomes.


C$10,001 is also a 5 figure income. :D
Quote:
Orginally posted by STHIRU18
I am sure I will have cynics throw their choicest curse on me, but that wouldn't matter. I am proud of having made it ( and I will make it very big, some day soon!).


No curses until you do not curse people, YELLING at them to GO BACK...GO BACK IF YOU DO NOT LIKE IT HERE!!!

Other than that, if you take offence to words like "shit", mebbee, just mebbee you need some counselling yourself. Seriously.


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STHIRU18   
Member since: Apr 04
Posts: 103
Location: MISSISSAUGA

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 11-09-05 17:24:21

Anyone sincerely interested in sharing my experience, can send me a private message.

Good luck an prayers for everybody.



STHIRU18   
Member since: Apr 04
Posts: 103
Location: MISSISSAUGA

Post ID: #PID Posted on: 11-09-05 17:29:31

Diogenesthecynic:

Forget all the abuses you hurled at me. It doesn't matter to me.

Can you tell me what plan of action you have for those who are in this situation? Something good might come out of your idea.




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