Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry her with these facts as well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as
you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system
that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family ,name
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important,
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this......
Please appreciate "HER"
I hope you will do....
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Whenever you experience joy, peace, security, equanimity or purity, it is only because you are aligned with ALMIGHTY.
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Originally posted by peacock1
But not many guys understand this......
Please appreciate "HER"
I hope you will do....
Once again, an exercise in stereotyping men as "insensitive jerks".
Respect should be from both sides. A woman should be equally respective to all the issues/shortcomings that a man face, before or after the marriage. There was already a discussion on this board about possessive wives not allowing their husbands to enjoy a "guys night out". A man cannot cut his past and leave his friends/family out once he decides to step into the holy matrimony.
The woman you are describing belongs to 20th century. In 21st century in Canada, many a equations have changed.
Location: British Columbia
Posted on: 12-04-10 11:55:13
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Originally posted by peacock1
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
Because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
This is kind of condescending to both the male and the female. Why would the woman be expected to be a 'master chef' when above these lines the author has written that its likely she's never 'entered a kitchen'?
Why also would the woman be expected to avoid being demanding or avoid learning faster? To placate a fragile male ego? Thats insulting to males.
Who says she will be willing to put her friends 'on the back burners". .. why assume there will be irrational jealousy, competition and insecurity? What if there isnt?
I also think its laughable to assume a woman wont drink and dance. At least an independant woman.
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~ Morning rain
Location: Western Hemisphere
Posted on: 12-04-10 17:09:22
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Originally posted by morning_rain
I also think its laughable to assume a woman wont drink and dance. At least an independant woman.
I know. My wife dances, drinks and then dances after drinking
Maybe I should start expecting her to be more wifely, eh?-----------------------------------------------------------------
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